Expert Northern NJ Couples Therapy & Marriage Counseling
Garrett Coan, LCSW | EFT Couples Therapist | 23+ Years Clinical Experience
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ (148 Google Reviews)
Are you having the same arguments over and over — or feeling more like roommates than partners?
If your relationship feels tense, distant, or damaged by broken trust, you may no longer know how to reach each other. You may still love each other, but conversations keep ending in defensiveness, withdrawal, anger, or silence.
I provide structured, practical EFT-informed couples therapy to help you understand what is keeping you stuck, change the patterns that are damaging the relationship, and begin rebuilding communication, trust, and connection.
23+ years in private practice specializing in couples therapy • 146 Google reviews • 4.9 stars
In-person in Clifton and online throughout New Jersey.
- The Same Arguments Over and Over: Lingering resentment that flares up over minor daily tasks.
- Feeling More Like Roommates Than Partners: An underlying void of physical and emotional intimacy.
- Communication That Goes Nowhere: Constant defensiveness, escalation, or complete emotional shutdown.
- Trust Issues or Deep Betrayal: Anxiety and emotional distance stemming from infidelity or secret behaviors.
You still love each other, but every conversation turns into a power struggle or an awkward silence. Most couples don’t need more abstract communication theories—they need practical tools to disrupt the painful cycles that take over their daily lives. Our work is emotionally focused, structured, and intentionally designed to build actionable, real-world healing.
Dedicated Couples Therapy Expertise
Conflict Resolution
Break stuck communication patterns and navigate disagreements with calm, focused guidance. Learn practical tools to transform friction into a deeper, stronger mutual understanding.
Infidelity Recovery
Navigate the intense emotions, shock, and grief of a broken trust. Receive expert clinical support to safely explore healing, rebuild security, and find a clear path forward together
Relationship Insights
Explore expert therapy tips, actionable communication strategies, and practical relationship guidance designed to help you and your partner reconnect in your daily life.
Are You Ready to Take the Next Step?
Whether you are looking to repair communication, rebuild broken trust, or strengthen your emotional connection, you do not have to navigate this journey alone. Let's take the first step together.
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Fred HeazyTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
My wife and I saw Garrett for marriage counseling and it made a real difference for us. Over the course of three sessions, he helped us see our relationship in ways we hadn't considered before and gave us tools that actually worked. What stood out most was how neutral he stayed, we never felt like he was taking sides, which made both of us feel safe opening up. He created a space where we could be honest without feeling judged. We're walking away with real, practical changes in how we communicate. Highly recommend him to any couple looking for guidance.Posted on Google![]()
LNK STrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
We had a wonderful experience working with Garrett. He was incredibly professional, objective, and created a safe environment where both my wife and I felt heard. The communication tools we learned have been invaluable. Highly recommend his services to anyone looking to repair or improve their marriage!Posted on Google![]()
Patricia AlfaroTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
Garrett is an excellent therapist. He creates a calm, safe space and really listens instead of rushing to give canned answers. He helped us have hard conversations we hadn’t been able to have on our own and stayed neutral while still being honest and direct. I’d recommend him to anyone looking for a counselor who actually pays attention and cares.Posted on Google![]()
Ag RaTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
My wife and I started seeing Mr. Coen after going through a very difficult period in our relationship, and we couldn’t be more grateful for his guidance. He brings thoughtful perspectives, asks the right questions, and draws on his experience working with other couples to offer practical insights and strategies that have truly helped us. We’ve been able to apply many of the strategies discussed, and they’ve made a difference in how we communicate and tackle challenges together. We’re still on our journey, but his support has been very valuable throughout our healing process. I would highly recommend him to any couple looking to strengthen their relationship or work through a difficult season.Posted on Google![]()
Natasha RTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
I rely on reviews myself, which is exactly how I found Garrett. I’ve had a great experience! Garrett is attentive. He asks important questions. Gives different perspectives and validates. The only thing I would complain about if anything, I just wish we had more time because I have so much to talk about lol. He’s been great truly. I’m glad he took the time to get to know the situation. We both felt heard and we both came out relieved about things. I’m happy to have found someone who uses EFT, it was really important for me to find someone who does this. Thank you Garrett.Posted on Google![]()
Anonymous UserTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
I reached out to Garrett like many others, when I was going through a particular rough patch with my partner. We were having issues communicating, building up resentment and jeopardizing our relationship. Garret has very practical and applicable advice. He works to make each person understand the other persons point of view. At the end of each session, there was some practical next steps to take, which helped. We only had a few sessions to right the ship. Definitely give him a call.Posted on Google![]()
Tim PetersonTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
My wife and I are incredibly grateful for the guidance and support we received through marriage counseling. We came in during a very difficult time in our relationship and truly felt heard, respected, and understood every step of the way. Garret created a safe environment where we could communicate openly, work through tough emotions, and start rebuilding trust and connection. What stood out most was the balance of honesty, compassion, and practical advice. We never felt judged, and every session gave us tools we could actually use in our daily lives. Thanks to this experience, we are communicating better, understanding each other more deeply, and moving forward with hopePosted on Google![]()
Charmaine WhartonTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
We went to Garrett as our relationship needed a tune up or slight reset. The reviews which drew us to him were spot on. He was very relatable and took a rather simple approach, encouraging us to recall the person we were drawn to in the beginning and recognizing whether or not most of that image still existed. Understanding the manner in which we present the issues to our partner could determine how they react or respond to us- positively or negatively. We’ve both been practicing the sandwich technique and it has been working. Garrett also encouraged us to find small ways to connect. Resume having a regular date night, take a walk or hike and find individual sources of inspiration that fills your tank. These all help to keep you in balance. Most importantly, choose your battles and don’t sweat the small stuff. We’re a work in progress, but definitely on the right path. Thank you Garrett for your guidance in understanding what was important.Posted on Google![]()
Ivana JukicTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
A wonderful experience. Garrett really helped navigate obstacles between my partner and I. highly recommendPosted on Google![]()
yiska trioTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.
Garret is clearly a capable, thoughtful person who’s easy to speak to honestly about difficult topics. He helped open up important conversations while also providing genuinely helpful insight and guidance for our situation. We’ve only had one session so far, but you can tell right away that he has a ton of experience and approaches things with both professionalism and care.Load moreVerified by TrustindexTrustindex verified badge is the Universal Symbol of Trust. Only the greatest companies can get the verified badge who has a review score above 4.5, based on customer reviews over the past 12 months. Read more